If you're just beginning the College Search and Selection Process, here's a piece that I've written to help guide you along the way.
ESTABLISHING A
FOUNDATION FOR THE SEARCH
Imagine that it is a year or so from now and you are
attending the college of your choice.
You are on your way back to the dorm from a late-night talk with a
friend. You keep replaying your friend’s
words: “I hate it here. I can’t imagine why I decided to come here in
the first place. I never really looked
into it. Everyone told me it was a good
place for me. Lots of kids from my high
school applied here. They all knew the
name. The first time I saw the place was
when I pulled my suitcase out of the car to move in. What was I thinking?”
It’s sad that your friend feels
like this, but you don’t feel the same way.
You like it here. Sure, there are
times when you miss your friends from high school, your room at home, and a
home-cooked meal, but the decision you made about choosing this college feels
more right to you every day. What made
the difference? You ask yourself.
Maybe it was the way
I approached looking at colleges in the first place and the questions I asked
myself. I remember my sophomore year
English Teacher saying, “The reason I am so intent on the amount of reading I
ask you to do for this class is to prepare you for the expectations that
college will place on you. You’re all
heading in that direction, and we have a responsibility to give you the kind of
foundation you’ll need to succeed.” I
began to think: Am I headed in that
direction?
It was obvious to my
English teacher that I was going to college, it seemed obvious to most of the
kids in the class with me, and, of course, it was obvious to my parents. But was that what I wanted to do with my
life? I spent time figuring this one out.
I looked at alternatives, went to guidance with a couple of friends, and
did an interest inventory and a career search.
The
decision was coming down to me—no one
else could make it for me. I asked
myself some hard questions. What did I
want to achieve with a college diploma?
Would I go to college to broaden my knowledge or to get specific
training? Was I smart enough to handle
college? How hard did I want to work? What did I do well? What were my strengths? And my weaknesses? How did I feel about learning? Were there things I really liked learning
about? What mattered to me? What were my values? What kind of place would
reflect my values? Could I be self-directed enough to accomplish four years of
college? Would I be ready to go to
college right after high school? Was I
thinking about college for the financial rewards or to gain a profession? The self-evaluation wasn’t easy. I envied those kids around me who seemed to
know from birth what they wanted to do.
Sometime during that
self-exploration, I decided that yes, college really was my choice, too. Once I had made the decision, it felt right.
1. Academics come first 4. Form a Team: Parents, Counselor, Teachers
2. Watch your deadlines 5. Use Your
Resources: Guidance, Career Center
3. Stay organized 6.
Narrow your college choices to:
25 and final to 6-8